When a father and mother get the news that they are going to have a baby,
they know the time to prepare starts immediately. But experienced parents know
there’s no amount of classes to attend or books to read that can prepare
someone for parenthood. However, it’s still worth preparing to understand what
life as a new parent will be like. We put together a list of things you won’t find
in a common parenting book that should prove useful.
Your
body reaches a new kind of normal
You may be counting down the days until you have your baby and your body
can start getting back to normal, but the truth is that your “normal” is going
to very different from what you’re used to.
People talk about the lifestyle changes they have to make once they have
kids, but some moms are reluctant to talk about their bodies. You may have some
bladder weakness after you give birth, and your doctor may recommend that you
do some Kegel exercise to strengthen your pelvic floor. Your back may feel a
bit stiff, and it could take a while to get back into a regular sleep
schedule.
It’s
okay to say no to friends and in-laws
Everybody is going to want to see you and your new bundle of joy, but
you’re probably going to want some peace, quiet, and a time to nap. Grandparents
can’t wait to see their grandbaby, your friends want to meet their friend’s new
baby, and sometimes you aren’t going to be able to accommodate everyone. Too many new moms and dads end up burning
themselves out because they’re constantly upsetting their baby’s schedule since
their loved ones can’t wait to come over. It is okay to take time for you, and
not say yes every time someone mentions wanting to see the baby. Remember,
you’re the parent and your word is law.
You
will go through supplies faster than you think
Babies aren’t just adorable additions to the family; they’re also eating
and growing machines. Your baby is going to slurp up their formula, baby diapers are going to disappear from
the changing table as soon as you replace them, and their onesies are going to
get snug. As you know, there’s no such
thing as a quick trip to the grocery store when you have a baby. Make sure that you stock up on supplies, and
consider buying in bulk to save money.
