Three Parenting Truths New Moms and Dads Need To Know

When a father and mother get the news that they are going to have a baby, they know the time to prepare starts immediately. But experienced parents know there’s no amount of classes to attend or books to read that can prepare someone for parenthood. However, it’s still worth preparing to understand what life as a new parent will be like. We put together a list of things you won’t find in a common parenting book that should prove useful.

Your body reaches a new kind of normal

You may be counting down the days until you have your baby and your body can start getting back to normal, but the truth is that your “normal” is going to very different from what you’re used to.  People talk about the lifestyle changes they have to make once they have kids, but some moms are reluctant to talk about their bodies. You may have some bladder weakness after you give birth, and your doctor may recommend that you do some Kegel exercise to strengthen your pelvic floor. Your back may feel a bit stiff, and it could take a while to get back into a regular sleep schedule. 

It’s okay to say no to friends and in-laws

Everybody is going to want to see you and your new bundle of joy, but you’re probably going to want some peace, quiet, and a time to nap. Grandparents can’t wait to see their grandbaby, your friends want to meet their friend’s new baby, and sometimes you aren’t going to be able to accommodate everyone.  Too many new moms and dads end up burning themselves out because they’re constantly upsetting their baby’s schedule since their loved ones can’t wait to come over. It is okay to take time for you, and not say yes every time someone mentions wanting to see the baby. Remember, you’re the parent and your word is law.

You will go through supplies faster than you think

Babies aren’t just adorable additions to the family; they’re also eating and growing machines. Your baby is going to slurp up their formula, baby diapers are going to disappear from the changing table as soon as you replace them, and their onesies are going to get snug.  As you know, there’s no such thing as a quick trip to the grocery store when you have a baby.  Make sure that you stock up on supplies, and consider buying in bulk to save money.